SHOULD I TAKE MY FOUR CHILDREN TO MY WiDOWED MOTHER?

Dear Mummy Nonye, Please advise me and also tell the world to do so to me. I am twenty
 six years now, and I am a widow with four children, all boys. I lost my husband two years ago , it has not been easy for me and my four boys since then. I was a complete house wife when my husband was alife. He had refused all pleas for me to further my education or learn any trade, he was truly making money and taking care of my children and my self. I did not finish my Junoir secondary one when I got married. I lacked nothing throughout our nine years of married life, until he became sick and died after spending all his savings. It was like taking someone on a journey, and abandoning her in the middle of a journey. No certificate to go and look for work, no known trade to fall back on.  Six months after the death of my husband, I was taken as a house made to work in the house of a MILLONAIR . I was very happy as at least I can eat three square meals a day again. I was given accommodation in that house with my children. They fed us and they paid my children's school fees. At the end of the month they give me four thousand Naira, of which I was very happy to receive then. Then five months ago, the worst happened and the MILLONAIR died . I was devastated . After his burial, I was asked by his children to vacate the house that there is no more job for me.  My question to you Mummy Nonye and the public is this ... Should I take these children to my mother   (1) to go and improve my self in Education or Trade. OR (2)  to go and look for a husband to Marry?  I honestly need your advice.  Thank you. Nnenna  okeoji.                                                                   (Note, I am already in contact with Nnenna Okeoji. You may also give her your candid advise.)